Handmade Gift Guide 2015

Buying handmade means buying something special. When one person, or a small team of talented people, are entirely responsible for a product and work on a project from initial idea, to sourcing materials, to handcrafting the product, right through to selling, shipping and customer service, they are able to ensure their values are upheld every step of the way. Whether it be a commitment to environmental sustainability, fair trade ingredients or incredibly high quality products, someone who has a hand in every part of the process finds it easy to achieve these goals. When you shop small, local or handmade, you are supporting these people and their devotion to the aspirations and ideals that many of us share.

Here are some of my favourite handmade items this year:

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Zephyrus Terrarium by ABJ Glassworks (Pennsylvania, United States, $65.00)

Crochet Braided Headband by Plexida (Greece, $9.58)

Stud Earring Set by Liperla (Turin, Italy, $22.60)

Because Cats Pinback Button by Sparkle Collective (Toronto, Canada, $1.54)

Teen Dream Enamel Pin by Ludlow Luna (Pennsylvania, United States, $10.00)

“A Certain Glamour” Cat Watercolour Print by Water in My Paint (Canada, $7.70)

Haters Gonna Hate Bunny Tote Bag by Hello Harriet (Winchester, United Kingdom, $16.00)

Antler Ring by Autumn Equinox Jewelry (New Hampshire, United States, $32.00)

Sunday Plaid Eyeglasses Pocket Square by The Honey Press (Massachusetts, United States, $25.00 – 40% off with coupon code “CLOSING40”)

Lace Up Slippers by White Noise Maker (Wellington, New Zealand, $29.00+ depending on size)

“Will Perform for Cakes” Side Plate by Jimbobart (London, United Kingdom, $35.00)

Terracotta Serving Bowl by Baskakova  (London, United Kingdom, $43.49)

All prices in USD. All photos via respective shops.

Happy Outdoors

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Like many people who live in the northern countries of the world, I feel the mood dampening effects of winter’s reduced daylight. I have become quite familiar with winter seasonal affective disorder or SAD, the so-convenient-it’s-annoying acronym, in my adult life.

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After several winters spent indoors wishing it were warmer and letting the darker days get me down, I think I’ve finally found a way to avoid – or at least delay – the onset of SAD:  as soon as the weather turns cold, I try go outdoors and appreciate the weather and changing seasons as often as I can. It makes sense that this works for me. When I was a kid, I had no ill feelings for winter. I loved playing outside with my dad, brother and dog on snowy Saturdays. Some of my fondest memories are tobogganing down a little artificial hill my dad would build off the edge of the deck – optimizing a small and very shallow slope to the side of the stairs – using the snow he shovelled off the deck. My brother and I would slide down, trying to get as far into the backyard as possible, make our way back up to the deck as our border collie, Bear, attempted to steal our mittens to bury them for reasons only he understood, repeat for hours and then go in and put our wet clothes on the register to dry while our mom made hot chocolate and insisted we were on the brink of frostbite. These days, my outdoor winter activities tend to include more shovelling and walking than tobogganing and dog wrestling, but the mood boosting effects are still the same. I still finish with hot chocolate.

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Top H&M
Cardigan H&M
Skirt thrifted
Knee Socks Mcgregor Socks
Hat ModCloth
Scarf ModCloth
Necklace ModCloth
Ring family heirloom

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All photos by me.

November Obsessions

The fall has been quite mild this year. The trees are almost bare and yet we haven’t had our first snowfall yet, not even the little overnight kind. And we’ve only had a few frosts, so the flowers in the garden continue to bloom despite being buried in leaves. I’m trying to enjoy the late fall and not get too excited for Christmas. Here are my current obsessions:

1. Burning candles on dark and stormy days.

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P. F. Candle Co.’s Campfire Scented Soy Candle

2. Cozy Winter Pajamas

I ordered these the other day, specifically for wearing when I’m tired and cranky.

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ModCloth’s Slumbers of the World Sleep Shirt

3. Details on Collars

These tiny patches, a thistle and a trillium (the flower of Ontario), have an iron-on backing and are perfect for sprucing up the collar of a plain white top or dress.

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Rose Hound Apparel’s Teeny Nature Patches

4. Holiday Sparkle

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H&M’s Sequined Bustier

5. Pretty (subtly festive) nails peaking out of knit glovettes.

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The Hungry Asian’s Holly Jolly Nail Polish

Working from Home

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Leslie Knope is my work ethic role model. I wish I could forgo a real-person amount of sleep to get as much done as she does. Unfortunately, I cannot live in a fictional world where it’s possible for one person to do the work of four or five. I can’t stay up all night making cookies and quilts and still get all my work done the next day. I need to maintain a work day schedule with enough time to recharge with food, sleep, friends, family and passive TV binging every now and then to avoid small business owner burnout.

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A band-aid on the finger is the international symbol for “I work with my hands”.

I’ve been working from home as a full time self-employed person for about a year now and I think I’ve finally developed a schedule that works for me. Everyone always says they would love to have a job that allows them to work from home. Those who live the dream know that it’s not as carefree and casual as everyone thinks. Everyone struggles with something at the beginning, it could be retaining a diurnal lifestyle now that you can work anytime of the day (or night) you like, combating cabin fever, maintaining work/life balance or any number of weird problems you’d never see coming. For me, the biggest struggle has always been keeping my work and home life separate. Here’s the best schedule I’ve been able to come up with:

I wake up around sunrise; I have since I was a kid, I don’t know why and I don’t know how to stop. I usually read in bed until a reasonable hour.
8 am – 9 am I make breakfast and make a to-do list, check my stats, maintain my Etsy listings, print out and process any orders that came in overnight and form a social media marketing plan (if applicable) while I eat.
9 am – 10 am I get dressed, tidy up the apartment and make myself a cup of tea.
10 am – 1 pm I dedicate time to working on new samples, which can include design time, sourcing materials, sewing, photographing or listing new items in the shop, and working on wholesale/ consignment orders.
1 pm – 2 pm I try to take a break to eat lunch. This time of year, I have a lot of working lunches.
2 pm – 4 pm I work on orders I take in through the Etsy shop. If I don’t have any open orders to work on, I focus on the blog.
4 pm – 5 pm I pack orders, print and process new orders, return emails and order supplies.
5 pm I try really hard to stop working but usually have to run to the post office, drop off some consignment items, answer trickier questions from customers, take some pictures for the blog, do research, etc.

Even the best schedule can be really hard to stick to when your office or studio is only a few steps away from your living space. For example, last Sunday night I found myself in my office, in the dark, answering emails at 10 pm, saying out loud, “this is why I have scheduled email time” and telling my husband I was almost done several times before I actually was. Every weekend I tell myself I will rest and recharge for the coming week before working on orders and blog stuff all day Saturday and running work errands half the day Sunday. But sometimes that’s what it takes to run a business.

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The best trick I’ve found to avoid burnout is literally tricking myself. If I can find a way to do things in a way that makes me happy, like working in my pajamas for an hour every morning or making myself a fancy and exciting tea before sitting down at my sewing machine everyday, I’m less resentful towards my intense, high expectations boss (i.e., me), less anxious, more creative and more likely to stick to the schedule.

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Dress Sophster-Toaster
Tights Shopper’s Drug Mart
Slippers White Noise Maker (similar)
Barrette very old

Finding balance is hard, but once you do, you’ll amaze yourself with how much energy and productivity you can find in one little person.

All photos by me.