January Favourites

The lights have come down, the tree’s been taken to be composted and all the Christmas magic is gone. It’s January and time to embrace the real winter. Here are my favourite things for the month where we try to stay positive.

1. A pretty place to get dressed in the morning.

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Urban Outfitters’ Aimee Jewelry Storage Hanging Mirror

2. Vintage-inspired Underwear

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What Katie Did’s Bullet Bra Harlow Nouveau

3. Beautifully Packaged Cosmetics

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Sephora’s Bésame Cosmetics Brightening Setting Face Powder

4. Winter Brights
Styled at Heart Tights

ModCloth’s Styled at Heart Tights

5. Botanical Jewellery

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Kate’s Little Store’s Jungle Green House Necklace

All photos courtesy of retailers.

The Etiquette of the Hostess Gift

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Never show up empty handed. It may be cliche, but it’s a great motto to follow – especially around the holidays when everyone is working extra hard to make their celebrations special. Bringing along a little something to thank your host for all the time, money and effort they put into throwing the best party of the year is a big deal. Finding the perfect hostess gift can be tricky but when done right, the gesture appears elegant and effortless.

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Here are some of the tips I like to follow:

For Giving
  • Find a gift that is small so it can be easily accepted by a host who has their hands full, literally or figuratively.
  • Get them a gift that suits the scale of the party. Giving your host something expensive or unexpected may stress them at an already taxing time.
  • Wrap the gift lightly or not at all, they will be busy with their hosting duties.
  • Get them something that can be used right away or for future entertaining.
  • Bring a unique gift – a person only needs so many bouquets and bottles of wine –  but don’t go too crazy. A fun tea towel, a fancy bar tool or an indulgent snack in pretty packaging are all safe bets.
  • Don’t know if gift-giving is appropriate? A sincere and gracious “thank you for having me” is all you need to give your host.
For Receiving
  • Open each gift shortly after receiving it and not in front of other guests: hostess gifts are nice, but not required.
  • Thank your gift-giving guests when you receive their gifts, thank you notes are not necessary.
  • If a guest brings wine, scotch, etc, try to open and serve it at the party. Obviously, this becomes impossible if everyone brings wine but you can leave unopened bottles out to show intent. If a bottle doesn’t get opened, invite the guest over another time to enjoy it with you or simply text them a picture of you enjoying it alone.

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Dress Sophster-Toaster
Top H&M
Tights Target
Shoes ModCloth
Necklace old

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No Pin Milkmaid Braids

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I love wearing my hair in milkmaid braids since growing it out. It’s one of the best ways to hide unwashed (and overgrown) hair. It’s great for camping and cottage trips where you can’t always wash or even wet your hair and don’t want to carry a lot of products. Before this fall, the only thing keeping it from being my perfect go-to hairstyle was all the tucking, pinning and pulling needed to pull off that charming trying-really-hard-to-look-like-I’m-not-trying look. Since then, I’ve found the secret to making milkmaid braids the quick and easy, lazy day style they deserve to be!

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I was inspired by a horror movie I watched around Halloween. I noticed that in the beautiful but not very exciting, The Witch, the 17th century New England women were wearing their hair in milkmaid braids, held together only by long pieces of ribbon. The next morning, I sauntered out of bed, as eagerly as one can, to see if this ribbon only method could really work. I found that I couldn’t do away with a couple of small hair elastics, to keep the ribbons from slipping off the ends of the braids, but was quite pleased when everything stayed in place without a single pin. They held tight for the rest of the day, captured by the light tension of ordinary ribbons I found laying around in my sewing stash.

Those women were on to something. With a bit of practice, these no pin milkmaid braids only take about 10 minutes to create and are comfortable worn all day. Here’s how I do it:

How-to:

  1. Start with brushed and moisturized hair. Split into two sections, down the middle, using a comb (or fingers for a messier look).

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2. Starting high up, near the top of the ear, braid each section leaving as short a tail as you can at the end.

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3. Cut two matching lengths of ribbon long enough to tie to the end of each braid, wrap around to the nape of the neck and tie in a bow. Tie each ribbon securely to the end of each braid, just above the elastic. I like to tie a basic knot, then wrap the ribbon around to the other side and tie another knot.

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4. Next, pick each braid up and place it over the top of your head. Hold each ribbon and pull them tightly across to hold the braids in place.

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5. Pull the ribbons around to the nape of your neck and tie in a bow. Tip you head back slightly to make sure the braids don’t slip off the back. It they do slide off, try placing them further forward, towards your hairline.

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6. Tuck in the ends of the braids, the ends of the ribbons and any other loose pieces of hair and you’re done!

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I find this method works especially well for medium length hair that isn’t quite long enough for any meaningful braid overlap to be pinned together.

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I like to use dark ribbon that blends into my hair colour but it might be fun to use brightly coloured ribbons and wrap them around the braids for a festive party look!

All photos by me.

November Favourites

The last few leaves have brought down by the rain and now litter the lawn. It’s time to get the snow shovels out and put up the Christmas lights. It’s the end of November and here are my favourite things from the past month:

1. Extravagant Pancake Recipes 

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Dinner, then Dessert’s Cinnamon Roll Pancakes with Icing

2. Cute Free Printable Gift Tags

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Kittenhood’s Free Printable Gift Tags (+ Snowflake Glove DIY!)

3. Warm Socks

November Favourites

Roots’ Squirrel Boot Sock

4. Cozy Clothes to Wear Indoors

Life in the Breakfast Lane T-Shirt

ModCloth’s Life in the Breakfast Lane T-Shirt

5. Subtle Holiday Accessories

November Favourites

Autumn Equinox’s Antler Stud Earrings in 14k Gold Fill

All photos courtesy of retailers/makers.