Summer Vacation

My family didn’t travel much when I was a kid, and if we did, it was only to nearby camp grounds and the like. I’ve only been on a plane once (or twice if you count the flight home) when my mom took me and my brother to Disney World for my twelfth birthday. Some poor guy died on the previous flight of the plane we were trying to board at the end of the trip. We had to wait for him to be removed and I guess they had no other choice but to wheel him right through the room of waiting passengers. It was a weird experience and my strongest memory of the trip. I’ve been to New York State about a dozen times and Quebec twice, but that’s about it. To quote April Wheeler in Revolutionary Road, “I’ve never really been anywhere.”

My husband and I have travel goals, but something always seems to trump them when it comes time to plan the yearly budget. That’s why we relish our one week of summer vacation spent, every year, up north at the cottage. We established the tradition when we were in college, every year taking as many friends as we could comfortably fit – and sometimes more – in the two cottages previously owned by my husband’s great-grandparents. My husband and I have spent time up there together as a couple of kids, as an engaged couple and as husband and wife.

The cottages were left in trust to my husband’s generation and have been managed and cared for by my mother-in-law since before my husband was born. A little while ago, the time felt right for my mother-in-law to pass the ancestral property on to my husband and anyone else who was interested in taking on the responsibility of caring for a place with so much family history. It was also time for her to take over the cottage down the path, previously owned by her parents. Although we are still waiting for all the legal stuff to go through, my husband thought it only right to start working on the maintenance and preservation of the property.

Luckily we have friends who have come to cherish the place almost as much as we have and who were happy to help with the less-fun aspects of owning a cottage.

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Though I can’t image why.

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I mean, there’s no TV, no computer, we only just got cell service and internet last year, the nearest town is an hour away and the cottage is only accessible by boat. There’s nothing to do.

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(Photo: Brett Didemus)

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Black Lemonade

I may love lemonade to an unhealthy degree, especially on hot summer days. On a recent trip up to the cottage, I whipped up a recipe I had been thinking about since the first turned warm: Black Lemonade.

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I’ve never really liked pink lemonade. Possibly due to the fact that during my first encounter with it, I got a mouthful of artificial “pink” flavours instead of the sweet and sour raspberries I had assumed to expect. I was so put off by this pink lemonade from a package that I thought I disliked all lemonade for an irrevocably long amount of time – somewhere in the 15 year range. But now I’m making up for lost time with this wonderfully refreshing, boozy blackberry lemonade recipe.

Ingredients

1 cup sugar
1 cup water
½ pint of blackberries
2 oz gin
juice of 1 lemon
sparkling water

Method

For the blackberry simple syrup
  1. Add equal parts sugar and water to a small saucepan (use 1 cup for quite a lot of syrup) plus a ¼ pint of blackberries – the remainder will be used for garnish.
  2. Bring the mixture to a simmer over low heat, stirring continuously.
  3. When the sugar has melted, which may happen long before the simmer is reached, abuse the blackberries by (carefully) pressing them against the side of the pan with a wooden spoon or heatproof spatula until they’ve given up all their juice.
  4. Then stir slowly and continuously (there’s a reason chefs call this sort of thing liquid napalm) until the mixture has thickened to your liking.
  5. Once thoroughly cooled, pour through a fine mesh sieve to remove the seeds and blackberry chunks before transferring to a squeeze bottle.
For the cocktail
  1. Place a few ice cubes in the bottom of an old fashioned glass.
  2. Add 2 oz gin (or vodka, if you prefer).
  3. Add 1 oz of the blackberry simple syrup.
  4. Squeeze the juice of 1 lemon into the glass, being careful to catch the seeds.
  5. Stir and top up with sparkling water.
  6. Garnish with a whole blackberry, if you want to be fancy, and serve.

I made this recipe to my lemon-loving taste for lemonade, which my husband describes as “this lemonade would be great if it weren’t for the sugar”, so don’t be afraid to tweak the simple syrup, lemon and water ratios to make this cocktail your own.

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Feeling saucy enough to make this for a group at your next backyard get together? Lucky you! It scales wonderfully to a pitcher recipe. Be sure to serve in a clear pitcher to let the gorgeous colour show through.

For a pitcher (serves 4)
  1. Place a handful of ice cubes in a pitcher.
  2. Add 8 oz gin.
  3. Add 4 – 4½ oz simple syrup (I find a little extra sweetness is needed if the ice will have time to melt and dilute the beverage).
  4. Squeeze, or ream, the juice of 4 lemons into the pitcher, being sure to catch the seeds.
  5. Stir and top up with sparkling water, at least enough to match the amount of lemon juice.
  6. Toss a few whole blackberries into the pitcher and serve.

Modern Day Version of my Grandmother

I had a moment while making the sample for my newest top. I was almost done, carefully hand-sewing the vintage buttons in place, when a strange emotion came over me: I felt connected, for the very first time, to my maternal grandmother.

We were never close when I was young. She lived nearby and I spent a lot of time near her but we never really bonded over anything. There were a lot of us grandchildren growing up and I happened to be number six out of ten, quiet, skittish and “the weird one”. I remember being surrounded by older cousins who were doing more interesting things and younger cousins doing more adorable things while I was just sitting there, in a dress made by my mother, hanging out with the photographer and asking him questions about cameras, birds and the human tongue while he tries to shoo me away long enough to photograph my family. I remember my grandma coming over to make quilts with my mother and aunts. I remember them draping a new quilt between the dining table, the kitchen island and two chairs so they could do the finishing details. I remember getting yelled at for trying too many times to start my new life under the quilt. I don’t remember really spending time with her… only passing time near her.

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I was surprised and extremely grateful when my mother and aunt told me I could keep all of my grandma’s sewing supplies that they didn’t want – namely a box of buttons, threads and ribbons – while I was helping them clean her house and get it ready to sell after moving her to a nursing home. I’ve been holding on to these things for a couple of years, trying to find a way to make use of them.

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A few weeks ago I had an idea to put them on a top I was thinking up. I thought it would be mighty green of me to re-use these old buttons my grandmother had saved, collected and cut off of her children’s clothes when they were no longer suitable. I was sewing them on by hand, using a needle, thimble and my arm length to measure thread, when I looked down and realized that I had recreated a scene, that I was doing exactly what my grandmother had done 20… 40… 60 years before me. For the first time, I felt connected to this woman that I never really knew. I felt that if she could see me, she would be proud of me – something I didn’t even know I cared about.

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Jeans ModCloth
Shoes ModCloth
Necklace gift from my thoughtful brother
Headband handmade

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Cookies and Cream Cookies

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I’ve always thought cookies and cream was one of the best flavours in the world. I love cookies and cream ice cream, cookies and cream chocolate bars, and, most of all, ice cream sandwiches – which are basically just reconstructed cookies and cream ice cream. I love cookies and cream so much, I’ve been trying to convince my husband that the Great Dane he wants should have a “cookies and cream” merle coat, just because it looks so delicious. So of course I created these soft, chewy cookies and cream cookies for a barbecue I attended this weekend. I wanted to get some pictures of my friends enjoying them for this recipe but I wasn’t quick enough.

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Ingredients

1 cup vegetable shortening
1 ½ cup sugar
2 eggs, beaten
1 tsp. baking soda
1 tsp. hot water
2 ¼ cups flour
1 tsp. kosher salt
1 cup broken Oreo-type cookies

Method

  1. Preheat oven to 375°F.
  2. Cream shortening and sugar until light and fluffy.
  3. Add beaten eggs. Dissolve baking soda in hot water and add along with the eggs. Mix in well.
  4. Add the flour and salt, stir until half-mixed.
  5. Break Oreo cookies by hand and add. Finish mixing.
  6. Form teaspoon sized cookies and place on a baking sheet lined with parchment paper.
  7. Bake 8-12 min.

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