Indian Summer*

I remember the first time I heard the term Indian summer. My mom used it to describe the dry, unseasonably warm weather we were experiencing while talking to my dad as we drove past a field of tall stalks of dry, pale yellow corn. I don’t remember what they were talking about, I don’t think I was even listening, but that phrase struck me with such significant beauty that I will never be able to forget the first time I heard it.

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When the weather turned warm with bright blue skies this week, after weeks of dreary cold, I though, oh yay, Indian summer. Then I had to wonder if the term I’ve been using for my favourite time of the year was non-PC, racist and harmful. In an age when people love being offended, especially on behalf of others, it can be hard for someone who doesn’t typically face barriers of discrimination to know which words are actually destructive.

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There are three main theories about the origin and etymology of Indian summer presented on Wikipedia:

  1. The time of dry heat – a type a weather very rarely seen in southern Ontario – following a cold and rainy period occurring in mid to late fall was first described to European settlers and explorers by Native American peoples.
  2. This type of weather frequently occurred during the Native American peoples’ traditional hunting season.
  3. It comes from some boaty-talk jargon involving the Indian Ocean.

There’s a quote I always think of, I can’t remember who said it because I can’t remember where I heard it, that goes something like, “A person who is always politically correct is a person who never says anything at all.” And while I firmly believe that political correctness has gone too far, I also believe that I’m not in any position to decide how someone else should feel about any word. Plus, theory #3 seems a little too convenient for the people who have never been hurt by words to actually be true.

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*So, with all that being said, please, let me know, at a time when many First Nations communities in Canada are struggling to secure their most basic human rights, is it alright to say Indian summer?

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Ring Blue Ridge Notions

All outfit photos by Matt Harrison, all flora photos by me.

Christmas Giveaway: 2 Retro Handmade Garlands

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Time for a Christmas giveaway! This time I’m giving away two of my handmade tinsel chain garlands from the Sophster-Toaster shop. That’s enough to trim the tree nicely, but they can also be used to decorate the mantle, the bar cart or overhead the dining table for added party sparkle.

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They come in eight colour options. You can have your choice of pink, blue, white, green, red, gold, silver or multicoloured (learn more about the colour options here). You could get two of the same colour or mix it up with two different strands!

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The giveaway is open to everyone and ends at midnight on Sunday, November 8th. One winner will be chosen at random and announced here, on Twitter and on the Sophster-Toaster Facebook page on Monday, November  9th. They will also be contacted by the email address provided in the entry form.

Good Luck!

Month of the Lepus

If you’re still wondering why my blog, Etsy shop and clothing brand are called Sophster-Toaster, wonder no more! They are named after a spunky little bunny I used to keep and love called Sophie (or Bun-bun, Sophster-toaster and sometimes Soph-a-loaf). Sadly, she passed away a few year ago.

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A painting my brother made for me from a picture I took.

Every year since we lost her, I’ve donated 10% of all my Black Friday through Cyber Monday sales to Rabbit Rescue Inc., a local no-kill shelter that takes in abandoned, neglected or injured rabbits and rehabilitates them for adoption. But I feel like that’s not enough so, this year, I’m donating 10% of all sales from the entire month of November!

The year I found a little Christmas tree for her.

The year I found a little Christmas tree for her.

Dressing up for Halloween

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I like dressing up on Halloween but I don’t like wearing a costume. I think it’s so much more fun to go as your real self. It’s the one day when you can experiment with all the weird things you like but aren’t brave enough to wear on a normal day. Things like bright red tights, matching lipstick, cut crease eye shadow even though you have hooded eyelids so it always looks weird, white nail polish and a party dress.

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I own these things because I like them. I don’t hide them in the back of the closet all year just counting down the days, but today is the only day I can wear them all together and not worry about the stares and smiles I’ll get.

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And you know what, every year, after every experiment, I get braver. I prove to myself that I can wear something bold, something I was unsure about, and not be bothered by the girl in sweatpants and moccasins, with the birds tattooed behind her ear, looking me up and down while I wait in line at the grocery store. Every year, I find the point where the real me stands and I get to see how much farther I need to push the boundary line before I can reach her.

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Dress ModCloth (old)
Tights Target
Shoes ModCloth
Earrings Claire’s (old)
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Lipstick Rimmel Moisture Renew in Red Alert
Nail Polish Revlon Top Speed in Spirit

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Maybe I’m not overdressed, maybe the world is simply underdressed. What’s wrong with looking like you are always on your way to a party?

All Pictures by me and Matt Harrison.