Friendsgiving at the Cottage

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For the past three years, the hubs and I have been spending Thanksgiving weekend at the cottage with our closest friends. For this reason, it has since become my favourite holiday.

The tradition started when the hubs and I were newly married and facing the annual decision to stay home and do a small fancier-than-usual dinner for two, or travel back home to be interlopers at the homes and developing traditions of cousins who had become the keystones of new family units, aunts who had become the new matriarchs of their families, or a step-relations who hadn’t formally invited us. Neither of us really enjoyed Thanksgiving that much growing up and we didn’t have many memories of the holiday so we decided to change that by doing what we really wanted to for the holiday. We agreed that the people we wanted to spend the day with were our friends and the place we wanted to spend it at was our beloved cottage.

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Photo by Mitch Hanna.

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We invited a large selection of friends the first year, hoping to find at least one or two people who would also be spending the holiday alone. Two people is exactly how many we found. We spent the long weekend, Saturday to Monday, together in my husband’s grandmother’s cottage next door because the cottage we usually stay in (and are currently trying to buy) is much more rustic and not yet insulated against the cold October nights. We cooked a modest meal, played board games and learned that we shouldn’t do puzzles together.

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News and pictures from our first real adult Thanksgiving spread and the next year more friends were looking to give up their childhood obligations of gathering around an overcooked turkey with people they only talk to when they have to in favour of what we had now started calling Friendsgiving. In the second year, we added two more friends – one being my brother – and an extra day. On the last evening, my mother-in-law and her husband joined us to have their own Thanksgiving during the week.

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Photo by Brett Didemus.

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This year, we had one regular attendee who couldn’t make it and gained a new first-timer. My in-laws enjoyed being part of our celebration so much that they decided to overlap with us again this year. The hubs and I have recently taken up a regular hiking hobby so we choose one of the many trails surrounding the small town nearest the cottage and invited our guests to join us. Surprisingly, everyone took us up on the invitation, the whole time saying, “we’ve got to do this again next year”.

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Photo by Matt Harrison.

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Photo by Mitch Hanna.

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Butternut Squash & Ginger Soup

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I love making soup, and this butternut squash soup is probably the best that I make. I originally found the recipe in Joy of Cooking and have been adapting, tweaking and making it my own over the years. The great thing about this soup is that it can easily be made vegan-friendly with one small substitution.

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Ingredients

For the Soup

1 medium to large butternut squash
3 tbsp olive oil
½ large sweet onion, chopped
4 tsp fresh ginger, peeled and minced
3 cups low sodium chicken broth (or vegetable broth to make it vegan)
pinch of kosher salt

For the Garnish

2 tsp olive oil
½ tsp kosher salt
¼ tsp cayenne pepper

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Method

  1. Preheat the oven to 375º and place a rack in the centre of the oven.
  2. Split the squash in half length-wise on a cutting board with a wet cloth underneath the board for added stability. Use a large, sharp knife and keep your fingers well out of the way. Remove the strings and seeds with a spoon, keep the seeds.
  3. Place the squash halves (or quarters if it is quite large) cut side up on a sheet pan lined with parchment paper or a silicone baking mat, brush lightly with olive oil and season with salt.
  4. Bake for 30-45 minutes or until the squash is soft and easily pierced with a knife.
  5. While the squash is baking prepare the seeds by rinsing them in water, trying to remove as much of the squash strings as possible – you won’t be able to get them completely clean, and that’s fine.
  6. Place the seeds on a paper towel and rub them gently to clean them up a little bit more. Remove them from the paper towel and leave them on the cutting board to dry. They can become stuck to the paper towel and be quite difficult to remove if left to dry on it.
  7. When the squash is done baking, remove it from the oven and leave it to cool. Turn the oven down to 325º.
  8. Mix the olive oil, salt and cayenne pepper in a small bowl and toss with the seeds. Spread out on a baking sheet lined with parchment paper. Roast in the over for 10 minutes – I like to stir them up half way through to separate any that may have been stuck together.
  9. While the seeds are roasting, heat your olive oil in a large pot or dutch oven over medium-low heat, chop your onion and mince your ginger.
  10. Add the onion and ginger to the pot and cook, stirring often, until the onion is soft but not browned.
  11. Remove the skin from the cooled squash – I like to peel it like I would a celeriac – and chop the flesh into large chunks. Add the squash to the pot along with the chicken or vegetable broth.
  12. Bring to a simmer and cook, uncovered, for 20 minutes, stirring often and breaking up the squash.
  13. Puree the soup with a stick blender (or in a regular blender or food processor) until beautifully smooth. Season with salt. If the soup is too thick for your taste, add an addition 1-2 cups of broth and heat through.
  14. Serve garnished with the roasted seeds and some fresh ground black pepper.

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All photos by me.

Fall Transition

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Fall has always been my favourite. Seeing the red, orange and yellow leaves grow vibrant as the morning fog clears to reveal a crisp blue sky, walking in the afternoon without getting all sweaty and cuddling up with a steaming cup of tea and apple pie scented candles in the evening make me incredibly happy. I look forward to this season all year long and although the first official day of fall has arrived, the sweater weather hasn’t quite yet.

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The days are getting shorter and the sunlight had turned to a sparkling golden colour at it’s lowest angles but the temperature still climbs to over 20 degrees everyday and reaches close to 30 with humidity. I want to wear flannel and wool, boots and sweaters but it’s just too hot. I guess I’ll have to settle for richly coloured dresses and black during the day as I transition my wardrobe from summer to fall.

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Dress Vintage
Shoes ModCloth
Hat Forever 21
Earrings very old

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Photos by Matt Harrison.

Handmade Market

Over the weekend, I went out to support my fellow makers and local small business owners at the annual Fall Handmade Market. I was extremely excited to go to this market, not just because I thought it was a weekend sooner than it actually was and had to hold on to that build up excitement for over a week, but because it was being held at a local winery. I had never been to a winery, despite having lived in the Niagara Region for six years now, and I was quite looking forward to going out to one and shopping for some seasonal things.

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It was a hot, wet and gloomy day, but that didn’t damper my mood in the least. I was determined to get some mittens and a pretty soup bowl.

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I couldn’t find any warm winter mittens that I liked (we’re only just coming up on fingerless glove season) but I did come away with a gorgeous soup bowl from Shed Pottery, three bars of goat’s milk soap — including an amazing lavender licorice scented bar — from Liv Simple Farms and some faux druzy earrings from Designs by Amber.

http://livsimplefarms.com/

Top ModCloth (super old)
Jeans Gap (old)
Boots Bakers
Camera Bag Amazon 
Hair Bow Craft Arts Market exclusive/ Sophster-Toaster
Earrings Craft Arts Market/ Nicole Gagnon

All in all, it was an excellent way to spend a soggy Friday evening.

Handmade Market will be back for the Christmas season on November 13, 14 & 15! Visit www.handmademarket.ca for more info.

Photos 2 & 4 by me. All others by Matt Harrison.